humility ~ C.S. Lewis

th-1

HE must increase, but I must decrease. ~ John 3:30

Plain and simple . . .  Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.
C.S. Lewis’s definition of humility nails it.  So much more than Webster’s:
the state of being not proud or haughty : not arrogant or assertive; lowliness; meekness.

My question:  What is it that gets in our way of being truly humble?

  • Impatience. We live in an instantaneous world.  We want what we want and we want it right now. There’s an unwillingness to trust that God is really in control. 
  • Insecurity. We feel that if certain things don’t happen, and if things don’t go the way we think or feel, we simply cannot continue. We just can’t go on. We can’t face another day of this mess. We just continue to listen to those insecurities that spin through our head. 
  • Identity in the wrong things. We can only feel good about ourselves if we are a success by how our social networks see us.  Or how the people we come in contact with every day rate us. Don’t you wish life was as good as it seems to be on Instagram, or Facebook, or Twitter?  We let the role we see ourselves in dictate our identity. 
  • Ignorance of the Word. We decide for ourselves what is right, instead of making the choice to line up our desires and thoughts with the Word.
  • Impure motives. Discontent or jealousy causes us to push ahead of God and use manipulation to get our way. It’s my way or the highway. 
  • Impulsiveness. Without asking God, we assume every seeming opportunity is a door He has opened.  Never assume.  Remember the enemy knows how to open doors too.
  • Ingratitude. A lack of thankfulness for what He’s given twists our perspective. We take on an attitude of ingratitude. 

All of the above add up to Pride.  We’ve all been guilty of pride – we just have a hard time admitting it.

In Lewis’s book Mere Christianity he talks about how pride is a major obstacle to knowing God.

As long as you are proud you cannot know God. A proud man is always looking down on things and people: and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.

Later, he says, “ . . . pride is spiritual cancer: it eats up the very possibility of love, or contentment, or even common sense.”

And so HE must increase, but I must decrease.

About beegee10

I am a follower of Jesus on the journey of discovering His real, lasting joy through God's grace and thanksgiving. Several years ago, I married my best friend, whom I met in kindergarten many years ago. Life choices took each of us on separate paths, but Divine Appointment brought our paths back together. It's exciting to share this journey with my sweet man - a man who loves God more than he loves me! What a gift!! As a young woman I prayed for God to send a godly man like my daddy to pursue me. I just wasn't listening and abiding when I should have been. Good news in HIS time and in HIS grace, HE did! Not only does my sweet man love me, but he loves my three grown kids as if they were his own. He shares their joys and he hurts when they hurt. I love to hear him pray for each of them daily as we begin and end our days. View all posts by beegee10

2 responses to “humility ~ C.S. Lewis

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: